January 2009


Today, I am at work and not observing MLK day.  I chose to work today so that I may take the day off tomorrow and attend the Inauguration of Barack Obama…I can't wait.  I can't help but get swept away in the energy surrounding Washington, DC at this time.  It feels sooo good!  I'm so inspired and so encouraged to do my part to create the change I want to see in the world.  I feel urged to be more aware of what's going on around me, doing what I can to make a difference in my community.  I realize that in the past I've been very slack about this.  And, I'm making a vow to myself to be more active in my community.  I'm positive that next year, I won't be working on MLK day and I will be doing my part.

I thought I'd share a little bit about why we observe today as a day of service in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  I hope that everyone feels a bit of the hope today that each little bit that we do individually does make a difference.  YES WE CAN!!

Taken from MLKDay.gov:

During his lifetime, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. worked tirelessly toward a dream of equality. He believed in a nation of freedom and justice for all, and encouraged all citizens to live up to the purpose and potential of America by applying the principles of nonviolence to make this country a better place to live, creating the Beloved Community. 

The King Day of Service is a way to transform Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s life and teachings into community service that helps solve social problems. That service may meet a tangible need, such as fixing up a school or senior center, or it may meet a need of the spirit, such as building a sense of community or mutual responsibility. On this day, Americans of every age and background celebrate Dr. King through service projects that:

  • Strengthen Communities
    Dr. King recognized the power of service to strengthen communities and achieve common goals. Through his words and example, Dr. King challenged individuals to take action and lift up their neighbors and communities through service.
        
  • Empower Individuals
    Dr. King believed each individual possessed the power to lift himself or herself up no matter what his or her circumstances – rich or poor, black or white, man or woman. Whether teaching literacy skills, helping an older adult surf the Web, or helping an individual build the skills they need to acquire a job, acts of service can help others improve their own lives while doing so much for those who serve, as well.
        
  • Bridge Barriers
    In his fight for civil rights, Dr. King inspired Americans to think beyond themselves, look past differences, and work toward equality. Serving side by side, community service bridges barriers between people and teaches us that in the end, we are more alike than we are different.

These ideas of unity, purpose, and the great things that can happen when we work together toward a common goal – are just some of the many reasons we honor Dr. King through service on this special holiday.

It's funny how we can have a perfect day, and then allow one thing, one moment, or one careless statement from another totally ruin everything.  I'm finding that no matter what I do, or say there's no guarantee I'll make everyone happy.  Sometimes I rub people the wrong way and sometimes people find me rude.  Everyone isn't going to understand me, be patient with me, or love me unconditionally.  I'm learning that I can't get mad at those persons for that either.  I can only be me, and I can only do my best.  Sometimes I'm going to fall short.  But, during those moments, it's up to me to be patient with myself, accept myself, and love myself unconditionally.  I can't let other people's opinions of me ruin my perfect day.

Another thing I've been noticing lately is I've been placed in numerous situations that totally ruffle my feathers, really make me uncomfortable, or tick me off…and simply removing myself from the situation is not an option.  For example, I have a co-worker that eats at his desk everyday and chews with his mouth open…disgusting.  Every time I fly (which has been very frequent lately), there's always something wrong…my seat is stuck and won't adjust, my personal light doesn't work, a baby is screaming the entire flight, my seat mate listens to the same song over and over and is humming at the top of his lungs, the flight is oversold, the flight is delayed, the flight is canceled, my seat mate wants to listen to his music WITHOUT headphones…I could go on.  Lately, every single customer service person I talk to REALLY hates their job and is taking it out on me.  There's just too many things like this occurring for me not to take the time and figure out what God is trying to show me.  

I'm realizing now that I've been put in all these instances to teach me something.  That is, I can't allow outside circumstances and other people to dictate my happiness.  And, I must learn to be happy anyway.  Intending to have a peaceful day doesn't mean that everything is going to go perfectly and everyone is going to be polite and say all the right things.  Instead, it means that no matter what happens, I intend to stay at peace and have a wonderful day.  No matter what happens, I intend to stay centered.

This is something that's seemingly easier said than done.  I've been borderline depressed lately because I miss Atlanta terribly.  I miss my partner, my friends, and the familiarity of being at home.  I've always been the type of person who loved to travel, explore new places, and make new friends.  But, at times I feel like in this instance, I'm being forced to do it against my will.  I know that I chose to take this opportunity for work, and I do appreciate it and I am grateful.  But, I'd be lying if I didn't admit how I feel sometimes.  All in all, I have to incorporate this new lesson.  Can I be happy and at peace even when I'm away from home and away from my comfort zone?  Can I be away from all that I know, and still…have a perfect day…?

Today marks the one year anniversary of the day I started this blog.  I started this blog because I felt like I had a lot to say and a lot to share.  I just love writing and I hope you've enjoyed this past year.  This next year I plan on writing even more, sharing more about myself, and just being totally vulnerable and authentic.  I want to say thank you to all my faithful readers and friends.  Thank you for "listening"…I love you!

They say that the easiest way to achieve your desired goal(s) is to simply make wise choices.  If you simply make the right choices every day, you will little by little work your way in the direction of your goal.  Sounds simple…but it's not always that cut and dry.  There come times where we really don't know what to do.  We're confused and are not sure which choice is indeed the best.  To this, I say, just pick one and trust that you'll know if it's the best for you after you make it.  If you don't like the choice, you can either change your choice later…or know better for the next time around.  This is the only way to learn what is best for you.  Take a chance!  There is no such thing as a wrong choice, or wrong path…only if you believe it so.  This is your life to create…:)

Sometimes, you have to learn as you go.  Sometimes the least desired choices bring us the most valuable lessons!  Life is supposed to be about learning, exploring, taking risks…having fun!!  They also say, it's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.  Guess it's more important to enjoy the journey than to get all wrapped up in how we're gonna get to the destination.  No one can tell you which way to go, it's all up to you…