Comments on: Asking for help… http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/ Inspiring others to return to peace, experience joy, and feel love... Mon, 19 Jul 2010 13:41:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Tiko http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-167 Tiko Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:41:07 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-167 Hmmm...I'll definitely have to look into that...;-) Hmmm…I’ll definitely have to look into that…;-)

]]> By: Michelle | When I Grow Up Coach http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-166 Michelle | When I Grow Up Coach Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:13:52 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-166 "Delegating is the best thing since sliced bread" totally belongs on a T-shirt, Tiko! “Delegating is the best thing since sliced bread” totally belongs on a T-shirt, Tiko!

]]> By: Tiko http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-165 Tiko Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:10:47 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-165 Yeah, I totally thought people would think I was either stupid or annoying...lol. But, it's the total opposite, which is awesome because delegating is the best thing since sliced bread! Wish I'd gotten over myself sooner!! ;-) Yeah, I totally thought people would think I was either stupid or annoying…lol. But, it’s the total opposite, which is awesome because delegating is the best thing since sliced bread! Wish I’d gotten over myself sooner!! ;-)

]]> By: Michelle | When I Grow Up Coach http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-164 Michelle | When I Grow Up Coach Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:02:52 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-164 What a smartie you are! But I already knew that. I'm also a victim of Superwoman Syndrome (love that!), but mostly because I'm on my own timeline & want to get stuff done according to my schedule & not anyone else's. My hubby's a copywriter & I'm probably gonna have someone else rewrite the copy on my website, just because I can't wait until his schedule clears up (except I can, because there's no deadline, but there is in my head!). Oy. I've found, though, that people usually feel honored and/or excited when you ask them for help. It shows them that you think they're knowledgeable, & they have something to offer. I used to think that I was "burdening" or "bothering" someone, but not anymore! What a smartie you are! But I already knew that.

I’m also a victim of Superwoman Syndrome (love that!), but mostly because I’m on my own timeline & want to get stuff done according to my schedule & not anyone else’s. My hubby’s a copywriter & I’m probably gonna have someone else rewrite the copy on my website, just because I can’t wait until his schedule clears up (except I can, because there’s no deadline, but there is in my head!). Oy.

I’ve found, though, that people usually feel honored and/or excited when you ask them for help. It shows them that you think they’re knowledgeable, & they have something to offer. I used to think that I was “burdening” or “bothering” someone, but not anymore!

]]> By: Tiko http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-163 Tiko Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:51:59 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-163 Thanks for your comment! That is a great awareness. And, acknowledging something is the first step. You can make the next step whenever you're ready or maybe not at all...it's up to you. But, it's cool we share similar stories...:) Thanks for your comment! That is a great awareness. And, acknowledging something is the first step. You can make the next step whenever you’re ready or maybe not at all…it’s up to you. But, it’s cool we share similar stories…:)

]]> By: Ish http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-159 Ish Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:12:27 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-159 aside from the gender of your superhero… i felt as if I could have been telling this entire piece. i developed an early ‘i got it’ attitude even with 4 siblings and both parents around. as i got older it became sort of a ‘i only trust myself so i won’t bother asking anyone else for help’ kinda deal and altho it hasn’t bitten me yet, i’m sure it’ll catch up to me. i’ve tried letting others get in on the action and leaning on people but i’ve been disappointed time and time again when i trust important things to other people to the point i’m really only confident in my own superman tactics. this post is probably gonna stick with me a while and i’ll try to be more like you when i grow up :) aside from the gender of your superhero… i felt as if I could have been telling this entire piece. i developed an early ‘i got it’ attitude even with 4 siblings and both parents around. as i got older it became sort of a ‘i only trust myself so i won’t bother asking anyone else for help’ kinda deal and altho it hasn’t bitten me yet, i’m sure it’ll catch up to me. i’ve tried letting others get in on the action and leaning on people but i’ve been disappointed time and time again when i trust important things to other people to the point i’m really only confident in my own superman tactics. this post is probably gonna stick with me a while and i’ll try to be more like you when i grow up :)

]]> By: Tiko http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-157 Tiko Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:08:38 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-157 Thanks! :) Thanks! :)

]]> By: kajestudio http://tikoshiamarie.net/2009/09/01/asking-for-help/#comment-156 kajestudio Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:41:16 +0000 http://tikoshiamarie.net/?p=228#comment-156 Nice blog spot, you have some keen insights. Nice blog spot, you have some keen insights.

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