I still drive my very first car…it’s an ‘01 Honda Civic…I love her. I’ve never had any serious problems from her, she’s always been very dependable. Except there was a period of time when my battery would become completely drained without any known explanation. After this happened a few times, I took it into the shop. I explained that I didn’t have anything plugged in, never left the lights on, and didn’t understand what was causing this. They said they’d run a test and let me know.
The mechanic called me later to say that the tests showed that there was something in my car that was constantly pulling energy from the battery, even when the car wasn’t on. They looked through the car to find the culprit and later found that it was my car alarm draining the car.
You see, when I first got the car, my parents took it to the neighborhood mechanic to hook up an alarm system in my car that was cheaper than the manufacturer’s alarm. Yeah…it was bootleg..don’t judge me…lol. This alarm was installed incorrectly and was causing a major energy drain without me even knowing it.
And, I thought to myself…how often does this happen in our lives? How often do we subconsciously hold onto people, old situations, old stories, old beliefs, old relationships that are literally sucking the life out of us, and we don’t even know it? How often do we keep people in our lives that no longer feed us, and instead leave us feeling depleted? How often do we stay at jobs that no longer challenge, inspire, or fulfill us? How often do we avoid stepping outside the box, only to stay cramped and stunted doing the same ole, same ole day in and day out.
I’m learning to recognize the energy drains in my life. I’m learning when it’s time to let go and move on. Sometimes it has nothing to do with ‘the people’ or ‘that job’. Sometimes, it’s simply the mind set, or belief attached to them that is causing the energy drain.
What’s causing the energy drain in your life? Are you ready to let go and move on? Are you ready to stand in your power and go for what you really want?
01/27/2010 at 12:57 am
I like this analogy a lot. I think it’s all about recognizing you can let go of what is not working for you and it’s ok, get up, get out and move on. Thanks for the story it really hits home.
01/27/2010 at 1:02 am
That’s exactly it! Glad you enjoyed it…:)